(Ghostwriter tears at this moment of starting on this blog of the memory in visions of the thoughts of it,so yes the tittle fits it very well) _______________________________________________ marrying your high school sweetheart is a reality check when her heart turn sour,as kids life is carefree and anything can be fixed with a chocolate cake,and that includes a broken heart. my mother kept her eyes on me and my wife did the same from a distant,my mom said I was gullible and my wife said I was naive to the real world,being a product of my circumstances.as my wife and I grew older her list of demands also grew. I was juggling a young marriage, a show business career, school and soon forced by wife to find a "real job in the real world".my wife friends were only happy for her if they were getting broke off! LIKE getting in clubs free or meeting famous comedians up close and personal,yeah her girlfriends loved those " private meet and greet"..you know the backstage ho...