One day,my mother was in the backyard painting and rebuilding a few chairs that she found in the alley, I would be walking through the backyard to the garage and mother was glancing over these old beat up wooden chairs, I said "mom" she didn't like me calling her mom,she would always correct me saying "I am mother not MOM" but I learned that the human brain respond to certain words rapidly and mom was a attention getter. I said to my mother you have money why not buy new chairs, in this brief dialogue with my mother as she glancing and visualise over the chairs,what the finished chairs will be. I couldn't see her visions with those beat up wooden chairs. a few weeks later we are sitting at the dinner table, I mentioned to my mother that I am happy that she took my advice and bought new chairs, she continued eatting not responding to my statement and when she was finished with her dinner she said...those are not new chairs. _________________________________...